I've been meaning to write something like this for a long time, though I felt that I haven't had the words to write it. Perhaps I still do not. Nonetheless, it's two in the morning, my eyelids aren't heavy, and I figured I ought to do something constructive.
So, despite my overly obsessive manner concerning the finer things on the silver screen, I've learned many film critics can be some of the most destructive people on the planet. Consider this: A film critic may spend one to two hours to develop a good critique of a film, which generally consists of what the critic did and did not like followed by a general and often vague judgment on the film as a whole. Yet there are some people on the crew of said film that worked 24 hours straight to make sure that the film was proper. There were people on the set of the film that worked days and nights without sleep to get everything just right. There were hundreds of people involved in the process, logging thousands of hours before the movie even hit the screen. There was a writer spending hours tweaking a line to get the punch just right and a director losing brain cells by running the same scene over and over again just to get the right look and feel for the rest of the movie. And all of this work was to create something new, an entire project born from a simple idea.
But there is a place somewhere inside of us that longs to create. It is what we do as human beings and as God's created ones: we make stuff. We build and we plan and we dream and we explore because that's what we do. But some of us who are not particularly good at creating choose instead to criticize. There is certainly a place for this, too, but not in the way we might think. To criticize is to destroy. This is for certain, for in criticizing, we often tell someone that the way they function in life or the things which they create are either wrong or no good. So we give our criticisms either written or verbal, and in the process, eliminate a viable path in their life without creating a new one. We must create a new path, and I believe we do this through love.
I advocate loving people, a skill somewhat scarce these days. When we love, we show how to be helpful and collaborate and how to understand others without critical bias. When we love, we ourselves create in others feelings and notions of belonging or success and we enable them to be better. Through love, we are able to push people past the mundane work and product to a quality of work not yet reached by mankind. In so doing, we also become better versions of ourselves and closer versions of what Christ modeled for us two thousand years ago.
I advocate loving people, a skill somewhat scarce these days. When we love, we show how to be helpful and collaborate and how to understand others without critical bias. When we love, we ourselves create in others feelings and notions of belonging or success and we enable them to be better. Through love, we are able to push people past the mundane work and product to a quality of work not yet reached by mankind. In so doing, we also become better versions of ourselves and closer versions of what Christ modeled for us two thousand years ago.
But understand this: my previous words are by no means the end all and be all God-sanctioned truth. It is merely my perspective on life. And I do believe that there is a corrective perspective, that is the perspective of Christ, but I am certainly not there.
And so if you have read this far, you have some choices. You can either forget that I wrote this at all and do nothing. You can tell me how and why I am wrong and how my perspective is incorrect, and in so doing, destroy in a sense that I would deem unhelpful, further bolstering my argument. Or you can encourage me to continue, and in so doing, create in me the inspiration to continue to push on. But unless we help each other, our perspective will continue to be rather narrow, like a nearsighted stare down a dark classroom hall. There will be no hope of making it to the other side without a illumination and proper focus.

I love you Kyle.
ReplyDeleteKeep posting. Don't fear criticism, it is not always a bad thing. Sometimes what we create is in fact bad (e.g. Babel). Even when criticism leaves no other option, it has pointed out the flaws of our creation, which is most definitely needed.